Saint -Valentin éthique et romantique

An ethical Valentine's Day

"Great nature admired together is the most beautiful accompaniment of a noble love."

-  Charles-Augustin Saint-Beuve

Do you smell it? This sweet scent of romance that every year makes the  hearts of some, and smoke with irritation that of other diehards?

It's the one about the approach of Valentine's Day.

An annual event that many couples should not miss, the event is also decried as a commercial celebration by its detractors.

Whatever our point of view on this occasion, we can agree that the latter often offers a gift to the loved one which in fact helps to establish a form of commerce.

But since we live in an era where it is necessary that our purchases, in addition to the pleasure they arouse, are useful and thoughtful  according to their impact, and the ethics they nourish, this year it is decided, the Valentine's Day gift will be no exception to the rule!

The origin, quality, composition of the gift or experience offered to your other half become criteria as fundamental as the emotion sought. And if finding the present combining pleasure and ethics is not always an easy task, your  shoemaker team favorite has mobilized to offer you  nice responsible alternatives to the most iconic Valentine's Day gifts.

It's this way, follow the guide!

But before that, a little story

So where does this tradition of celebrating passion come from? February 14 has been considered a lovers' day since the 14th century. At that time, it was thought that birds waited for this day to mate.  Inspired as is often the case by nature and animals, our ancestors adopted this symbolic date to celebrate the love they had for their partner by showering them with lovely attentions, and the cultural heritage of this cute tradition has remained with us.

A table for 8pm in the name of COG, thank you.

Let's start our romantic cruise with the unmissable and symbolic Valentine's Day dinner for two.

For the occasion, we reserve a table in a great address, and if we're going to treat ourselves, we might as well treat ourselves while taking care of the planet and animal species.

Goal: 100% pleasure, 0 guilt!

For this gourmet introduction, rather than opting for a meat-based menu, the environmental impact of which can be severe, we try to introduce our other half to the vegetarian or vegan menu made up of seasonal dishes.

Fortunately, today, there is no longer a shortage of plant-based alternatives, and veggie and vegan cuisine now also has its representatives in the world of haute cuisine; like the idyllic Culina Hortus in Lyon, from ONA in Arès near Bordeaux, or The Arpeggio in Paris.

Also to be discovered in the capital at more affordable prices, the very friendly 42 Degrees (100% raw and vegan cuisine) and The vegetable slaughterhouse.

Of course, for an exceptional outing, we mention exceptional restaurants here, but there are a thousand other addresses of plant-based cuisine restaurants, all just as nice and accessible for smaller budgets.

We'll let you rummage around and share your favorite addresses with us in the comments; and if you're lacking inspiration, the great site VegOresto will allow you to discover the perfect vegetarian restaurant near you ;)

Restaurants vegan Saint-Valentin

Tonight, I cook.

Dining out is great, but this year, you want to please your lover in a “I’ll take care of everything, you don’t take care of anything” way, by going all out.

Let's eat if you like, and to be modern and conform to our responsible ideal, for once, we're going to leave the candles out, because as enchanting and decorative as they are, candles are not the best friends of ecology.  In addition to emitting toxic products for the interior of our welcoming cottages, candle wax, whether it is based on paraffin derived from hydrocarbons, of animal origin (beeswax and other insects) or plant origin (palm, rapeseed, soya), involves significant environmental consequences during the development phases, or extraction of these components.  For the atmosphere, we will therefore go for a discreet but very pleasant play of subdued lighting, which - accompanied by a pretty plant decoration - will have the best effect.  Let's go back to the kitchen for a moment,  since our concern is that all we have of the chef is the apron and the set of knives.

No matter, a mountain of books dissect step by step the steps to follow to succeed in the perfect recipe, adapted to our level to delight our other half on this occasion, or to cook together during our next rainy weekends spent as lovers.  On our shelves sit the beautifully illustrated books of the excellent cook and culinary photographer Marie Laforêt, and those of the very talented Jean-Philippe Cyr for a gourmet and accessible approach to plant-based cuisine. To discover and consume without moderation, for guaranteed success!

Time for wild flowers and indoor plants.

What could be more beautiful than a field of flowers and its graceful palette of colors rippling in the wind?

For this day like no other, we suggest you play it romantic like no other, and preserve this splendid natural picture by leaving the flowers in their meadow rather than shortening their life to a few days spent in a vase. Especially since this will avoid some harm to the planet since as reported this article from France 24, no less than 12 billion flowers are imported each year from distant countries such as Kenya or Israel, and that no regulation to date limits the doses of pesticides that can be used, even for flowers grown in Europe. Pollution of soil and air, the ecological rating of the floral sector is therefore not left out.

But then, what can you replace the usual Valentine's Day bouquet with to declare your love to the chosen one of your heart? It's time to play the originality card by thinking natural, but also sustainable, by offering a beautiful indoor plant - accompanied of course by its inseparable word of love - which will have the merit, in addition to passing the years, of reviving in your partner the memory of this occasion like no other, with each watering.

For a romantic touch, we recommend you take a look at the website Bycharlot, which offers you to personalize your plant by adding a personalized word on a pretty colored pot. A thought that will not fail to have its little effect.  It's up to you to choose the variety(ies) best suited to your expectations based on the desired aesthetic, ease of maintenance, size and light of the room for which the plant is intended.

Jolies plantes à offrir
Bijou écoresponsable

What about the jewel?

An iconic gift, and undoubtedly one of the most coveted on Valentine's Day, jewelry nevertheless raises its share of ethical issues that it is interesting to dwell on before offering your partner their precious jewel.

Indeed, if every industry has its drawbacks, that of the extraction of precious metals is considered a particularly polluting sector, in particular because it is very energy-intensive. In addition, it has the sad reputation of participating in the exploitation of human misery by exposing miners to terrible working conditions. This is particularly the case for gold and diamond mining in West African countries.

So, before buying a piece of jewelry, it is best to find out where the piece of jewelry you want to choose comes from.

Fortunately, more and more committed brands are emerging that are concerned with these ethical issues. This is the case ofOmyoki for example, which offers fair trade rings, bracelets, and earrings.

Closely involved in supporting developing countries, the brand collaborates with small workshops, ensuring fair pay for its partners, while ensuring that their employees work in good conditions.

On the French manufacturing side, discover Ceithre and its collections of jewelry made from wood or mainly recycled metals, made by Noémie, the young creator of this committed brand.

And to continue supporting local know-how, visit the online store Aglaïa & co.

Finally, the good advice of The Good goods : Rely on the Fairmined label which guarantees artisanal gold with high social value, traced and extracted with respect for the environment.

Kindness in a bottle.

Another famous and classic gift for Valentine's Day: perfume.

Personal and captivating, the world of perfumery represents an incredible universe of sensory exploration.

However, with the industrialization of the market, essences, originally produced from natural flowers and aromatic plants, have given way to synthesized scents, which can prove to be harmful to the planet, but also sometimes to our health and our lungs.

Fortunately, some brands such as 100Good prefer to focus on quality by emphasizing respect for the body and the environment in the creation of their fragrances.

Their bottles are cruelty free, natural and refillable.

All that remains is to find the ideal scent to intoxicate your partner..

Parfum écoresponsable
Cosmétiques La Canopée

Cosm-ethics

We remain in the semantics of body care with the famous beauty kits and cases.

Being eco-responsible also involves the choice of treatments present in our bathrooms.

Compositions of natural bio-sourced ingredients, recyclable packaging, certified vegan products, if your partner likes to take care of their appearance, they might as well do it while preserving nature.

In this case, the Made in France and vegan cosmetics brand The Canopy will make her happy, just as she won the hearts of our team after we tested their routine and fell for their products!

Ethics, from the plate...to the feet.

Digital montage, no flower or petal suffered to make this photo :)

And what if, after our tête-à-tête meal without candles, we ended the evening with a little clothing gift.

We see you coming, where Valentine's Day and fashion meet, you say to yourself "finally they are talking to us about naughty lingerie!"

It could have been the case, but unfortunately we'll pass on this one this time, since here we're going to approach the issue of ethically sewn clothing in a more global way. So you'll have to play on curiosity to find the perfect ski socks, pyjama-combi, or kangaroo briefs to end this evening on a torrid note with your loved one ;)

Well, we were saying; if you want to offer a piece of clothing, why not combine ethics with pleasure, by offering a piece made according to responsible criteria.

For the newbies, let's remember that fashion is the second most polluting sector in the world after oil, with 1.2 billion tons of CO2 generated per year! So if you're going to please, you might as well do it without adding to the environmental bill.

Today, fortunately, there are many committed brands which, like COG, through European manufacturing and taking into account the well-being of workers, the use of recycled and ecological materials, or even the choice of using only vegan alternatives.

Eco-responsible clothing, underwear, bags, accessories and shoes now have their representatives, and by being a little curious, we can easily find alternatives to create, or in this case, offer pretty wardrobe items that are ethically made, in a supportive environment.

If we don't do the work for you, by letting you search the web to find the eco-responsible gem(s) that best match your loved one's tastes, we can still recommend a very nice little up-and-coming brand of  shoes eco-responsible ;  City shoes women/man Made in Europe, sneakers made from plastic bottles fished out of the sea and recycled cork, 100% vegan materials, they have what it takes to ethically and elegantly dress your soulmate's feet in any season.

Ok, we couldn't resist the temptation to advertise ourselves a bit, it doesn't cost anything apparently, but seriously, if buying new is sometimes necessary; second-hand is certainly a way of consuming that is just as - if not more - ecological and virtuous for the planet. So why not spoil your sweetheart with a brand new second-hand item? Bravo for the COG oxymoron!

Local thrift stores, online resale sites, there are many ways to find the perfect outfit to dress your partner, while doing something for the planet.

You have probably already heard of the now famous resale site Vinted, but many other online thrift stores exist, such as OnceAgain,  Or  you will find hundreds of second-hand items in excellent condition, even new, and sometimes at ridiculously low prices.

To remain ecological, however, beware of the rebound effect and do not fall into the trap of buying more because it is cheaper; because new or second-hand, ethical clothing will always be the ones we wear, and not the ones we buy to pile up in a closet.

Sneaker vegan et recyclée COG
Séjour écoresponsable romantique

An eco-responsible stay

What if for the occasion we got some fresh air and escaped hand in hand for a weekend to discover one of our beautiful French regions?

For inspiration, visit the website of Natura Box which offers green stopovers all over France. Chic eco-friendly accommodation, a night in a cozy cabin or under a teepee, the choice of stays offered is varied, and will be ideal for stocking up on memories and taking your mind off things in the forest, at the sea or in a remote corner of nature.

Is your friend more motivated by responsible actions than relaxing stays?

No problem. Pass your COGs, and we jump on the train, heading to the countryside for a permaculture weekend. And if it's the defense of animal welfare that unites you, we go to discover a sanctuary to lend a hand to volunteers and take care of rescued animals.

Our responsible and supportive addresses:

The Breuil school : On the program for these two days, the discovery of the fundamentals of permaculture alongside experienced speakers. Attention, places are very limited!

Onion : a training course that shares with you the keys and basic notions of agroecology. A few kilometers from Paris.

Noah's Ark Shelter : Less than 15 km from Strasbourg, come and meet the rabbits, llamas, pigs, cows, goats and horses taken in by Hugues and all the dedicated volunteers of the shelter and lend a helping hand to provide the necessary care to their little protégés. Reception open to visitors every Wednesday and Saturday.

The gourmet present.

If there is one gift that is generally unanimously accepted and will certainly delight your partner, it is chocolate!

Although cocoa beans do not grow in our latitudes, consumed occasionally, in a ballotin or in a bar, chocolate makes a very nice gift, provided that we do not forget to read the labels to see if the secret ingredient is there, we are obviously talking about the ethics of production.

Fair trade from Artisans of the World, vegan and organic at IChoc, chocolate is only tastier when it is made responsibly; because it is neither always ecological nor always cultivated in an altruistic framework, as the documentary shows. The hidden side of chocolate, released in 2010.

Finally, why not accompany this rounded gift with a light and zen note such as an assortment of teas?

Antioxidant, anti-stress…the list of benefits of this age-old drink is long.

Whether or not tea is your partner's guilty pleasure, why not introduce them to the brand? The other tea or the organic brand 4:24 p.m. and their boxes with delicate flavors? Their manufacturing ethics go from ecology  to the consideration of the people in charge of picking, through to giving work to people with disabilities in the context of bagging their products.

Very nice values, for a gift full of virtues and gentleness.

Cadeau gourmand pour la Saint-Valentin

Up to you !

There you have it, we hope that this article has given you some nice ideas to follow to offer a Valentine's Day full of joy and with general respect for life, to the person you love.

Of course, this list is just a sample of the countless nice gestures that could be appropriate for the occasion, many of which - and the most beautiful ones - are not for sale. It is up to you to be creative in ethically showing your love to your dear and tender, knowing that listening, attention, and consideration offered on a daily basis certainly symbolize the most beautiful marks of affection that one can offer to the people one carries intimately in one's heart.

Lots of love to those in love, and to those who aren't.

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