An ethical Valentine's Day
"The magnificent beauty of nature, admired together, is the most beautiful accompaniment to a noble love."
- Charles-Augustin Saint-Beuve
Can you smell it? That sweet scent of romance that intoxicates everyone every year The heart of some, and smoking out of frustration that of other irrepressibles?
It's the one about the approach of Valentine's Day.
An annual event not to be missed for many couples, it is also criticized as a commercial holiday by its detractors.
Whatever our point of view on this occasion, we can agree that we often offer a gift to the loved one which does indeed help to establish a form of commerce.
But since we live in a time when it is necessary that our purchases, in addition to the pleasure they bring, be useful and well-considered depending on their impact, and the ethics they promote, this year it's decided, Valentine's Day gifts will be no exception to the rule!
The origin, quality, and composition of the gift or experience offered to your partner become criteria as fundamental as the desired emotion. And while finding a present that blends pleasure and ethics isn't always easy, your team of shoemakers your favorite has mobilized to offer you charming and responsible alternatives to the most iconic gifts of the holiday season amoureux.euses.
This way, follow the guide!
But before that, a little history
So where does this tradition celebrating passion come from? February 14th has been considered the lovers' holiday since the 14th century. At that time, it was believed that birds waited for this day to mate. Drawing inspiration, as is so often the case, from nature and animals, our ancestors adopted this symbolic date to celebrate the love they felt for their partner by showering them with lovely attentions, and the cultural legacy of this sweet tradition has remained with us.
A table for 8pm in the name of COG, thank you.
Let's begin our romantic cruise with the unmissable and highly symbolic Valentine's Day dinner for two.
For the occasion, we booked a table at a great place, and since we're going to treat ourselves, we might as well enjoy ourselves while taking care of the planet and animal species.
Objective: 100% pleasure, 0 guilt!
For this gourmet introduction, rather than opting for a meat-based menu, the environmental impact of which can be severe, we try introducing our partner to the vegetarian or vegan menu made up of seasonal dishes.
Fortunately, today there is no shortage of plant-based alternatives, and veggie and vegan cuisine now also has its representatives in the world of haute cuisine; like the idyllic Culina Hortus in Lyon, from the ONA in Arès near Bordeaux, or the Arpeggio in Paris.
Also worth discovering in the capital at more affordable prices are the very friendly 42 Degrees (100% raw and vegan cuisine) and The plant-based slaughterhouse.
Of course, for an exceptional outing, we mention exceptional restaurants here, but a thousand other addresses of plant-based cuisine restaurants, all equally nice and accessible for smaller budgets, exist.
We'll let you browse around and share your favorite spots with us in the comments; and if you ever run out of inspiration, the great website VegOresto will allow you to discover the perfect vegetarian restaurant near you ;)
Tonight, I'm the one cooking.
Going to a restaurant is nice, but this year you'd rather treat your amoureux.euse in the style of “I’ll take care of everything, you don’t have to worry about anything”, by going all out.
Let's sit down to eat, if you please, and to be modern and conform to our responsible ideal, for once, we'll leave the candles out, since however enchanting and decorative they may be, candles are not the best friends of ecology. In addition to emitting toxic products into the interior of our welcoming cottages, candle wax, whether it is paraffin-based from hydrocarbons, of animal origin (beeswax and other insects) or vegetable (palm, rapeseed, soy), involves significant environmental consequences during the development or extraction phases of these components. For the atmosphere, we will therefore go for a discreet but very pleasant play of subdued lighting, which - accompanied by a pretty plant decoration - will be of the best effect. Let's return to the kitchen for a moment, because our concern is that all we have of the chef is the apron and the set of knives.
No matter, a mountain of books breaks down step by step the stages to follow to create the perfect recipe, adapted to our skill level, to delight our partner on this occasion, or to cook together during our next rainy weekends spent in amoureux.euses. On our shelves sit the beautifully illustrated books of the excellent cook and food photographer. Marie Laforêt, and those of the very talented Jean-Philippe Cyr For a delicious and accessible approach to plant-based cuisine. Discover and enjoy without moderation, for guaranteed success!
The time for wildflowers and houseplants.
What could be more beautiful than a field of flowers and its graceful palette of colors rippling in the wind?
For this special day, we suggest you embrace a uniquely romantic approach and preserve this splendid natural scene by leaving the flowers in their meadow rather than shortening their lives to just a few days in a vase. This will also help avoid some negative impacts on the planet, as reported... this article from France 24, No fewer than 12 billion flowers are imported each year from distant countries such as Kenya and Israel, and no regulations currently limit the doses of pesticides that can be used, even for flowers grown in Europe. Soil and air pollution are therefore significant factors in the environmental impact of the floral industry.
So, what can replace the usual Valentine's Day bouquet to declare your love to your sweetheart?lu.e of her heart? It's time to play the originality card by thinking nature, but also sustainable, by offering a beautiful houseplant - accompanied of course by its inseparable love note - which will have the merit, in addition to lasting for years, of reviving in your partner the memory of this special occasion, with each watering.
For a romantic touch, we recommend you take a look at the website of Bycharlot, which offers you the opportunity to personalize your plant by adding a custom message to a pretty, colorful pot. A thoughtful touch that is sure to make a great impression. It is up to you to choose the variety or varieties best suited to your expectations based on the desired aesthetic, ease of maintenance, size and light of the room for which the plant is intended.
What about the jewelry?
An iconic gift, and undoubtedly one of the most coveted on Valentine's Day, jewelry nevertheless raises its own set of ethical issues which are worth considering before offering your partner their precious jewel.
Indeed, while every industry has its drawbacks, precious metal extraction is considered a particularly polluting sector, notably due to its high energy consumption. Moreover, it carries with it the unfortunate reputation of contributing to the exploitation of human misery by exposing miners to appalling working conditions. This is especially true for gold and diamond mining in West African countries.
Therefore, before buying a piece of jewelry, it is best to inquire about the origin of the one you wish to choose.
Fortunately, more and more socially responsible brands are emerging, focusing on these ethical issues. This is the case with...Omyoki for example, which offers fair trade rings, bracelets, and earrings.
Deeply committed to supporting developing countries, the brand collaborates with small workshops, ensuring fair compensation for its partners, while also ensuring that their employees work in good conditions.
Regarding French manufacturing, discover Ceithre and its collections of jewelry made from wood or mostly recycled metals, crafted by Noémie, the young designer of this socially conscious brand.
And to continue supporting local expertise, visit the online store. Aglaïa & co.
Finally, the good advice of The Good Goods : Opt for the Fairmined label which guarantees artisanal gold with high social value, traceable and extracted with respect for the environment.
Kindness in a bottle.
Another famous and classic gift for the holiday of amoureux.euses : the perfume.
Personal and captivating, the world of perfumery represents in itself an incredible universe of sensory exploration.
However, with the industrialization of the market, essences, originally produced from natural flowers and aromatic plants, have given way to synthetic scents, which can prove to be harmful to the planet, but also sometimes to our health and our lungs.
Fortunately, some brands such as 100 Good prefer to focus on quality by emphasizing respect for the body and the environment in the creation of their fragrances.
Their bottles are cruelty-free, natural, and refillable.
All that remains is to find the perfect scent to intoxicate your conjoint.e.
Cosm-ethics
We remain in the semantics of body care with the famous beauty kits and pouches.
Being eco-responsible also involves choosing the products we use in our bathrooms.
Compositions of natural, bio-sourced ingredients, recyclable packaging, certified vegan products, if your conjoint.e If they like to take care of their appearance, they might as well do it while preserving nature.
In this case, the Made in France and vegan cosmetics brand The Canopy will make her happy, just as she won the hearts of our team after we tested their routine and fell in love with their products!
Ethics, from the plate...to the feet.
Digital montage, no flowers or petals were harmed in the making of this photo :)
And what if, after our candleless tête-à-tête dinner, we ended the evening with a small clothing gift?
We know what you're thinking, where Valentine's Day and fashion meet, you're thinking "finally they're talking about sexy lingerie!"
That could have been the case, but unfortunately we'll pass this time, since here we'll be addressing the issue of ethically sewn clothing in a more general way. So you'll have to be curious to find the perfect ski socks, onesie pajamas, or briefs to end this evening on a steamy note with your loved one ;)
Okay, as we were saying; if you want to give a garment as a gift, why not combine ethics with pleasure by offering a piece made according to responsible criteria.
For those unfamiliar with the industry, let's remember that fashion is the second most polluting sector in the world after oil, generating 1.2 billion tons of CO2 per year! So if you're going to give pleasure, you might as well do it without increasing the environmental impact.
Today, thankfully, many brands are committed, like COG, by using European manufacturing and taking into account the well-being of workers, the use of recycled and ecological materials, or the choice to use only vegan alternatives.
Clothing, underwear, bags, accessories, eco-responsible shoes now have their representatives, and by being a little curieux.euse, It is easy to find alternatives to build up, or in this case, offer, beautiful wardrobe pieces made ethically, within a solidarity framework.
While we won't do all the work for you, leaving you to scour the internet to find the perfect eco-friendly gem(s) to suit your loved one's tastes, we can still recommend a very nice little up-and-coming brand. shoes eco-responsible ; dress shoes women/man Made in Europe sneakers made from plastic bottles recovered from the sea and recycled cork, 100% vegan materials, They have what it takes to ethically and elegantly dress your soulmate's feet in any season.
Okay, we couldn't resist a little self-promotion, it doesn't hurt, apparently, but all joking aside, while buying new is sometimes necessary, secondhand is certainly a consumption method that is just as – if not more – eco-friendly and virtuous for the planet. So why not treat your loved one?ri.e With a brand new second-hand item? Bravo for the COG oxymoron!
Local thrift stores, online resale sites, there are many ways to find the perfect outfit to dress your partner, while also doing something good for the planet.
You have probably already heard of the now famous resale site Vinted, But many other online thrift stores exist, such as OnceAgain, Or You will find hundreds of second-hand items in excellent condition, even new, and what's more, sometimes at ridiculously low prices.
To remain eco-friendly, however, beware of the rebound effect and do not fall into the trap of buying more because it is cheaper; because new or second-hand, ethical clothes will always be those that we wear, and not those that we buy to pile up in a closet.
An eco-friendly stay
And what if, for the occasion, we took some fresh air and escaped hand in hand for a weekend, discovering one of our beautiful French regions?
For inspiration, visit the website of Natura Box which offers green getaways all over France. From chic eco-friendly accommodation to a night in a cozy cabin or under a tipi, the choice of stays offered is varied and will be ideal for making memories and clearing your head in the forest, by the sea or in a remote natural setting.
Your ami.e is more motivated by responsible actions than by relaxing holidays?
No problem. Get your COGs (Certificate of General Education), and we'll hop on the train to the countryside for a permaculture weekend. And if animal welfare is what unites you, we'll visit a sanctuary to lend a hand to the volunteers and care for rescued animals.
Our responsible and socially conscious addresses:
The Breuil school : The two-day program includes discovering the fundamentals of permaculture alongside experienced instructors. Please note that places are very limited!
Onion : A training course that shares the fundamental principles and basic concepts of agroecology. Located a few kilometers from Paris.
The refuge of Noah's Ark : Less than 15 km from Strasbourg, come and meet the rabbits, llamas, pigs, cows, goats, and horses rescued by Hugues and all the dedicated volunteers at the sanctuary, and lend a hand in providing the necessary care for their little charges. The sanctuary is open to visitors every Wednesday and Saturday.
The gourmet gift.
If there's one gift that generally pleases everyone, and will certainly delight your partner, it's chocolate!
Although cocoa beans do not grow in our latitudes, consumed occasionally, in a box or as a tablet, chocolate makes a very nice gift, provided that we do not forget to read the labels to see if the secret ingredient is there, we are obviously talking about the ethics of production.
Fair trade certified Artisans of the World, vegan and organic at iChoc, Chocolate is all the more delicious when it is made responsibly; because it is neither always ecological nor always grown in an altruistic way, as the documentary demonstrates. The hidden side of chocolate, released in 2010.
Finally, why not complement this rounded gift with a light and zen touch such as an assortment of teas?
Antioxidant, anti-stress…the list of benefits of this ancient drink is long.
Whether tea is, or isn't yet, your partner's guilty pleasure, why not introduce them to the brand? The Other Tea or the organic brand 4:24 PM And their gift boxes with delicate flavors? Their manufacturing ethics range from ecology from consideration for the people in charge of harvesting, to providing work for people with disabilities in the context of bagging their products.
Such lovely values, for a gift full of virtue and gentleness.
Up to you !
So, we hope this article has given you some nice ideas to follow to offer a Valentine's Day full of joy and with general respect for life, to the person you love.
Of course, this list represents only a small sample of the countless thoughtful gestures that could be appropriate for the occasion, many of which—and even more beautiful ones—are not for sale. It's up to you, then, to be creative in ethically expressing your love to your dear one, knowing that listening, attention, and consideration offered daily are certainly among the most beautiful expressions of affection one can offer to those closest to their heart.
Lots of love to lovers, and to those who are not.
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